A happy woman is a woman in love with herself. No, this is not about unhealthy selfishness. No, this is not about narcissistic personality disorder. And yes, this applies not only to women, but also to men. I'm just writing about women today. You can only love others if you love yourself. If there is no love for yourself, then for others, then this: control out of fear and anxiety, addiction, the desire to be needed by someone (because you dont need yourself), lust for power, again out of fear. Anything but love. All blessings (as well as troubles) we receive from the world. How we relate to the world is what we see in it. What we see is what we can take from it. And the world is a reflection of us. Reflection of our attitude towards ourselves.