When people think of ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder), they tend to picture little boys who can’t sit still in class. They may also associate it with getting poor grades in school. This is because the original diagnostic criteria for ADHD was based on boys. Very little research has been done on girls and women with ADHD.
This outdated stereotype unfortunately prevents girls and women from being
properly diagnosed, which can lead to a myriad of other issues, such as
eating disorders, substance abuse, depression and anxiety.
Whereas men with ADHD may have problems at work, such as being unable to
complete their tasks or getting mad too easily at coworkers, women are
more likely to see conflicts at home. Society still expects certain things
from women. For example, they are expected to remember birthdays, do
laundry, cook and keep track of events. Considering that even basic
self-care tasks like taking a shower and brushing your teeth can be hard
for someone with ADHD, it's understandable why women with ADHD can feel
like they are constantly overwhelmed.