THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES

♥ Love to Love ♥

What are the love languages?

We all give and receive love in 5 different ways:

These are called 'love languages' - a concept created by Dr. Gary Chapman through his long-time work as a marriage counsellor.

Acts of Service:
For these people, actions speak louder than words. Use action phrases like "I'll help...". They want to know you're with them, partnered with them. Do chores together or make breakfast in bed. Go out of your way to help alleviate something in their daily workload.

Receiving Gifts:
For some people, receiving a heartfelt gift is what makes them feel most loved. Thoughtfulness, make your spouse a priority, speak purposefully. Give thoughtful gifts and gestures. Small things matter in a big way. Express gratitude when receiving a gift.

Quality Time:
This language is all about giving the other person your undivided attention. Uninterupted and focused conversations. One-on-one time is critical. Create speacial moments together, take walks and do small things with your partner. Weekend getaways and intentionally planned time are huge!

Words of Affirmation:
This language uses words to affirm other people. Encourage, affirm, appriciate, emphasize, and listen actively. Send an unexpected note, text, or card. Genuinely encourage your partner, and often.

Physical Touch:
To this person, nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate physical touch. Non verbal - use body language and touch to express love. Hug, kiss, hold hands, show physical affection often. Make intimacy a thoughtful and consistant priority.